Lil' Jerral got his first taste of the cane today from Mommy. The Lil' One had been extremely naughty these few days and especially with his Grandparents around. Finally Mommy had enough of such behaviour and could tolerate no more!!
While having his dinner this evening, Lil' Jerral insisted on running around the whole house and after which insisted for his Granny to carry him and instructing her to open a wallet full of coins for him to play. He threw a very bad tantrum when Mommy insisted that he was to sit quietly in a corner for dinner and not to touch or play with the coins while having dinner.
Had enough of such bad and nasty behaviour, Mommy immediately brought him to the room, with the door closed, took out the cane and gave the Lil' One a whipping on his tighs! It's really heartbreaking to see him crying and wailing from the whipped but like the old saying goes "Spare the rod, spoils the child". Mommy really hopes to make him understand that such behaviour is intolerable and hopefully, we shall see no more of such bad behaviour .
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10 comments:
Dear Jerral,
Sayang! You must be good boy & listen to your mommy & daddy hor!
Love from Hayley Jie Jie
yeah, totally agree to be stern when necessary. The little ones drive us crazy at times!
HI Sally..
ya..and it's even harder to teach the naughty one with the grandparents around.. he's not afraid of you cos' have support..frus! it's easier to teach him when you r alone.
san
Li'l J,
It's hard to sometimes listen to your parents, but they mean the best for you. Mommy canes, but her heart breaks one.
So be good, and don't break Mommy's heart again, okie? gou-gou xiao-zhi-tou.
Many hugs from NL,
Kiki jiejie
Hei.. canning is prohibit, it is consider as child aburse in developed countries... !! hmm.. is lill Jerral sensed that you guys r busy moving and wanted attention? Jerral makes mammy heartach.. poor mama..!! and poor jerral.
Hi Lil' Kiki n Hayley..
nice of u to drop by ;)
yes..pray hard that Jerral will learn from his lesson n hopefully no more of such bad behaviour..Mommy San really cant stand lil' kids throwing tantrum..but ya..guess I have to be more patient n toleranting with him.. tks n muacks muacks..
Hello Chyun..wa..so serious ar..ok ok will try not to cane him unnecessary ;( . thought about it..think prob will keep the cane first n use it on him again only when he understands what did he do wrong..otherwise no use caning. think he still a bit young for it now..just got to more patient with him. tks for highlighting it!
Hi San,
Chyun is right.
In Europe, physically disciplining the child is forbidden and is considered abusing him/her. The child has the full rights tolodge a report against his/her parents. Neighbours who see the act will also have rights to report us parents. So we are being watched like a hawk here.
In the past, I gave Kiki a little smack on her hands or bum when she is very unreasonable, and my husband will forbid me to do so and brings me to an understanding level that she is still very young and does not understand WHY we are angry with her. So now, I will only STERNLY verbally reason things out with her, and if she still throws her tantrums, I keep her on her bed or naughty corner for 5-10 minutes. When she cools down (still sobbing a little), I will go to her, and guess what, she will come to me hugging me (sometimes I hug her) which means she is sorry for her act (or I forgive her). Though the word SORRY is still not out from her mouth yet, her or mine hugging act does work as a cool-off remedy for both Kiki and I.
You are still a wonderful mommy to Jerral and you have your own parenting method. As maybe Jerral is still very little, maybe you will like to try this method. It will however bring more cool and closeness in the relationshop of the both of you.
Many hugs,
Mommy Shef
Yes, when grandparents r ard, kids seem 'fearless'!!**#^& They r so clever hor.
Ya mommy shef..tks for the guide!
yes... me thought about using the the naughty corner method too when he is older..think this is the best solution to teaching a kid cos me also dun want him to remember mommy being bad n use cane on him also. sigh..it's really tough teaching him.
Sally, ya..really fearless when grandparents around.. scold him but at the corner of his eyes..looking out for grandparents n crying out loud for them..headache..
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